If 50 Percent Of Husbands Will Likely Have An Affair, Will Yours? By D P Haynes  |   Submitted On April 22, 2018    It's estimated that 50 percent of husbands will have an affair. I'm not talking about an emotional affair or a fantasy affair but a physical affair. With such a daunting statistic, what are the odds that your husband will cheat on you and how in the world do you keep him on the right side of the stats? The good news is that... Read more

My Spouse Cheated, But I Still Miss Him By Katie Lersch  |   Submitted On July 02, 2018    I sometimes hear from wives who are somewhat angry that they miss their unfaithful husband. Many of them have kicked him out of the home. They felt justified in doing this and they thought that taking this type of decisive action might give them some relief. But, much to their surprise and disappointment, they find that they still miss him. Many are co... Read more

I Find Myself Constantly Feeling Jealous After My Spouse's Affair By Katie Lersch  |   Submitted On July 08, 2018    I often hear from wives who feel very insecure and jealous after their husband's affair. This jealousy is not always limited to just the other woman in the affair. Much to her surprise, the wife can find herself jealous of numerous people, even if she is not jealous or envious by nature. This may be because her perception of h... Read more

Do Husbands Miss The Excitement Of An Affair After It Is Over? By Katie Lersch  |   Submitted On July 12, 2018    I sometimes hear from faithful wives who are worried about their husband's feelings after he has ended his affair. Many worry that even though their husband seems to be committed to the marriage, he is going to miss the drama and the excitement that the affair brought about. They worry that by comparison, their marriage is going... Read more

How Often Does The Mistress Try To Make Contact When The Affair Is Over? Is This Common? By Katie Lersch  |   Submitted On July 19, 2018    I sometimes hear from wives who are afraid that, now that the affair is over, the other woman is going to try to contact the wife or the husband. Of course, the wife usually hopes that the other woman will just gracefully go away. But unfortunately, this is not always the case. Many wives want nothing wh... Read more

Before You Have the Affair By Steve Wickham  |   Submitted On July 31, 2018    Men have an affair to stay in a relationship, whilst women have an affair to leave a relationship; this is one idea that I've been pondering in recent months. I'm not sure if it's entirely true, but there is some truth to it. I don't usually like to talk about affairs. It gives energy to something detestable, but the fact is infidelity happens. Having felt the... Read more

My Husband Continues To Lie After His Affair By Katie Lersch  |   Submitted On August 03, 2018    Many wives who are dealing with infidelity understandably want the complete truth about every single, tiny detail of their husband's life and thoughts. It might seem like overkill to some, but when you've been betrayed and fooled by a spiderweb of lies, then it can get to a point where you'll only tolerate 100% of the truth at all times. This ca... Read more

I Eliminated My Spouse From My Life After His Affair. How Do I Let Him Back In? By Katie Lersch  |   Submitted On August 13, 2018    Understandably, many wives dealing with the overwhelming reality of an affair want their husbands out of their sight immediately. They don't want to look at him. They don't want to hear his excuses. They just don't want him anywhere near their personal space, so they ask him to leave. In the days after this, ma... Read more

Does The Other Woman In The Affair Feel Smug At The Idea Of Breaking Up A Family? By Katie Lersch  |   Submitted On August 20, 2018    Many wives would love to know what the other woman is thinking once the affair is over. Many assume that the other woman was smug about taking a man from his family and felt indifferent to the idea that she was potentially breaking up a family. Many wives envision women who set out to tempt married men away f... Read more

How to Identify a Cheating Boyfriend? By Kanika Saxena  |   Submitted On September 03, 2018    The foundation of any relationship is trust. However, in current times the cases of betrayal have become commonplace. And, at such a time there arises a question, "Should one trust his or her partner completely?" Unfaithfulness in relationships occurs not only among married couples but also among couples who are not married. There are numerous case... Read more

I've Already Divorced Once. And Now My Second Husband Is Cheating. What's Wrong With Me? By Katie Lersch  |   Submitted On September 10, 2018    I often hear from wives who are understandably extremely upset to find out that their husband has been cheating. Unfortunately, many place at least some of the blame on themselves: Why didn't they see it? Were they not a good wife? Is there something wrong with them that contributed to a seemingly g... Read more

Why Do Husbands Risk Having An Affair And Then Beg Their Wives Not To Leave Them? By Katie Lersch  |   Submitted On September 17, 2018    I often hear from wives who do not understand the division between the man who is begging them not to not to leave him because of his affair and the man who risked literally everything in order to have that same affair. The wife often wracks her brain in order to figure out what his thought process might h... Read more

Although My Spouse Claims He Wants Our Marriage, He Admits He Still Has Feelings For His Affair By Katie Lersch  |   Submitted On September 24, 2018    It can be daunting to attempt to save your marriage after an affair. You may want to do it more than anything, but even the most optimistic and loyal people will have doubts. Even when the affair is over, it's very hard to restore the trust and to believe that your spouse is very willingly wi... Read more

When I Tell My Husband That His Cheating Wrecked My Self-Esteem, He Claims His Confidence Is Low Too By Katie Lersch  |   Submitted On October 22, 2018    Many wives who are dealing with the aftermath of an affair will tell you that this process has affected their self-respect or their self-esteem. This may not make sense unless infidelity has happened to you, but having your spouse cheat on you can make you feel like you are less than every... Read more

What Is The Likelihood Of A Second Affair After A Man Has Cheated Once? By Katie Lersch  |   Submitted On December 06, 2018    I often hear from women who are dealing with infidelity and who admit that, in a perfect world, they would like to one day be able to save their marriage. But of course, almost all of them have reservations and doubts. One of the biggest concerns that I hear is the fear of repeat cheating. It is absolutely normal to... Read more

Do Fairy Tales Exists? By Vance Larson  |   Submitted On August 01, 2018    Love at first sight. They see each other from across the room. Their eyes lock. Every other person fades out. The music starts. He walks over to her and it's just as if they've know each other their entire lives. They kiss. They marry. And 2.5 kids later and a black lab, they live happily ever after. After all. It is a fairy tale. I do a fair amount of relationshi... Read more

Finding Love Even If You Are Already In Your Forties By Rosemarie Sumalinog Gonzales  |   Submitted On September 25, 2019    Love is awesome and unnerving regardless of when you discover it. Be that as it may, searching for affection after 40 accompanies its very own one of a kind delights and challenges. By the time you arrive at your 40s, there are numerous potential ways your life may have taken to get you to where you are. Possibly yo... Read more

The Philosophy of Deflowering a Virgin By Madan G Singh  |   Submitted On December 17, 2019    An Act of God or PassionI am going to pen a few thoughts which I want to get over. I am going to touch on the moral and emotional aspects of deflowering a virgin. Is it wrong, especially if you have no plans to marry her and would like to list this act as a conquest? The answer can be under two heads. Either you believe in religious dogma and fee... Read more

Blast From the Past - Love to Remember By Madan G Singh  |   Submitted On January 02, 2020    Not a Leaf Moves Without My WillIn India, particularly in the city of Mumbai are small tea stall run by women. These stalls are allotted by the government and they serve a definite purpose in society. Years back I had an emotional encounter with a young girl who ran a tea stall. I could never locate her again as she seemed to have vanished in the... Read more

Love in the Far East of Russia By Madan G Singh  |   Submitted On April 04, 2020    At one time Russia rivaled the USA as a global power, but then came Gorbochov and we all know that Russia broke up into 18 states. This was also the end of the Russian dream for parity with USA, as the population was reduced by half and so was the area. But when Russia was a monolith place under communist rule it was organized and Indians were well respect... Read more

After Infidelity-Stay or Go? By Tina Tessina  |   Submitted On May 19, 2020    When you get the devastating news that your spouse has had an affair, how do you decide whether to stay or go? Because you feel betrayed, your first impulse is usually anger, and wanting to leave-fight or flight. But, after you calm down, you realize there's a lot you'll lose, and you may have children to consider. Don't make an instant decision you may regr... Read more

Do Muslim Men Lust For Hindu Women By Madan G Singh  |   Submitted On May 25, 2020    Lust is a word that means intense or unrestrained sexual craving. Sometimes the word does look vulgar or course but it defines a mindset that is dictated by desire and temptation. All over India and Pakistan, the one fact that stands out is the number of Hindu girls with Muslim men has husbands. In Pakistan, it takes a bizarre form with about 20-25 girls... Read more

How To Survive Infidelity By Wendy Wall  |   Submitted On October 08, 2020    Ever been cheated on? I have,and boy does it hurt! Here's some keys to survive it. Ask Questions You may need all the factual details of the affair. How they met? When did they meet? How often did they meet? How long was the affair? How many times did they meet? How much money they spent? And so on. Getting answers to all your questions may shift your perceptio... Read more

6 Tips to Help You Choose the Best Private Detective Investigator By Shalini M  |   Submitted On March 31, 2021    Today, it's quite common to hire a good private detective. People hire them for a variety of reasons, such as running background checks on prospective employees and checking on a cheating spouse. If you are going to choose the best private detective, we suggest that you follow the 6 tips given below. 1. Client References First... Read more

Five Ways on How to Turn Down an Invitation By Jim Konerko  |   Submitted On June 11, 2021    There comes a time in many of our lives when we get invited somewhere. Perhaps to a party, a date, a ballgame, etc. But for some reason, we may not want to go. We may not want to hurt the inviter's feelings, but we don't want to be inconvenienced ourselves. So here are some ideas on how to turn down an invitation in the politest way possible. 1. Te... Read more