How to Spot That On-line Relationship Manipulator
When we stop feeling we need a partner, are nothing without one, are not complete and whole, perhaps then there will be no need for scammers. This especially holds true for the older woman. If she really loved herself, would she get sucked in by the predators? I think not.
As one of those older women, here is my story, using his actual words and misspellings. These are words from someone I had not met in person.
His first text: "Hope you are having fun Pretty."
His second text: "Please relax well; that beautiful picture looks 30 to me... can you send me any more pictures you have?"
My response: "Yes later, not able to now."
His text: "OK Angel, I'll wait even till Christ resurrect."
His next text: "Good morn and happy Sunday to you. Hope your night was good. Don't forget to have a cup of coffee. Joe cares."
My response: "Thanks Joe... not a coffee drinker... have a nice day."
His text: "You too, going to church?"
My response: "Not church goer."
His text: "Oh, OK. Care to share some recent pix?"
My response: "No, am with a friend."
His text: "OK-later then I'll be expecting."
His text: "I'd like to be the air you breathe and the sun that HEATS YOU, BUT THE MOST I WANT IS TO BE THE LOVE OF YOUR LIFE. GOOD MORNING SWEETHEART."
My response: "Nice message... very poetic and very presumptuous. However, I am looking for the real."
His text: "You found me baby... what's your plan 4 today?"
His next text: "How are you doing love?"
His next text: "Hello sunshine hope you had a great nite rest. Love you."
Definitely you just witnessed some very smooth gesturing - those attempting to pull in the lonely lady who wants an instantly gratifying relationship. Meaningful relationships don't happen in this way. Victim relationships do though and how utterly ridiculous that many ladies fall for those seductive words. They actually send money to men whom they've never met, fly to countries that are unsafe and risk losing their savings to these unscrupulous men. (And by the way, often these "men" are really women pretending to be men.)
Please notice also the incorrect use of grammar. It often means that the writer is not from an English speaking country or not very bright. And what's so important about you sending more pictures? Well, do you think those pictures of you might be used to put a bogus profile on line to pull in some lonely men and scam them?
So... is there a moral to this story? Well, yes - it's put yourself first always, allow yourself to be lonely (it's simply a feeling and feelings can be reprogrammed), and join organizations to meet people so you can release those lonely thoughts and emotions.
Jyude Allbright is all about empowerment... "Be the power that you truly Be," is her motto. She assists people in the heart knowledge she has learned from her own relationship mishaps. Jyude affirms... we are not powerless in our addictions like AA's first step says, when we trust ourselves, we recognize someone attempting to manipulate or control us, we all have the innate power to live our lives responsibly. Her coaching practice and books can be found at http://www.beingrecovered.net and she is available for speaking engagements on addiction recovery and powerful dating skills. What if you got some free tips on her radio show, "Love Your Addiction," at [http://www.blogalkradio.com/loveyouraddiction?]
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